excerpt from rutus blog.

Most Guys suffer from 'One-itis'. This is where when a Guy first has a Crush on a Girl, He starts believing She's the 'One'. Think Uday Chopra's Character in Dhoom or it's Sequel. Girlfriend. Marriage. Kids. The Works. (Hard to Believe, but True). There are Two Immediate Effects of this Illness and One in the Long Term. First, He will Not be Himself around the Girl. That put him at a Tremendous Disadvantage at the Outset. You can remember this the next time a Guy acts Weird around you. Secondly, Since now, for him, this is a Make or Break Affair, He needs to Apply Himself more. Try Harder. This Intensity of Emotion brings us to our Third Effect. If it doesn't work out, the Intense High is Replaced by a Low. And He will try his Best to Forget you. This is Best Effected by Falling for Some Other Girl. Surprisingly, the Cure for 'One-itis' is the same as its Cause. You. When things work out, all Symptoms of 'One-itis' will Ooze out of his System. He will now become Commitment Phobic. Funny.

how true..and all this time..i was thinking that I was the only one with 'one-itis' :d
girls..listening?